it's like "lol hey guess what you're not enough for me srry2say"
Not at all! There are some couples where only one person is into sci-fi, so they don't drag their partner to sci-fi movies; they do that with other friends. There are some couples where one person is vegetarian, so the other partner doesn't drag them to Outback Steakhouse; they find someone else to accompany them. In this couple, h!Stephen doesn't have a sex drive, so Jon participates in that with other people. It doesn't change the primacy of their relationship, or affect their commitment to each other.
(Happy!Stephen is perfectly content with the whole arrangement; he doesn't have a jealous bone in his body. Meanwhile, l!Stephen is a firm believer in the value of polyamory, and c!Stephen gets off on being [consensually] lent out to friends for sexual use. So I think this is a win-win-win-win.)
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it's like "lol hey guess what you're not enough for me srry2say"
Not at all! There are some couples where only one person is into sci-fi, so they don't drag their partner to sci-fi movies; they do that with other friends. There are some couples where one person is vegetarian, so the other partner doesn't drag them to Outback Steakhouse; they find someone else to accompany them. In this couple, h!Stephen doesn't have a sex drive, so Jon participates in that with other people. It doesn't change the primacy of their relationship, or affect their commitment to each other.
(Happy!Stephen is perfectly content with the whole arrangement; he doesn't have a jealous bone in his body. Meanwhile, l!Stephen is a firm believer in the value of polyamory, and c!Stephen gets off on being [consensually] lent out to friends for sexual use. So I think this is a win-win-win-win.)